Select Acumulados.Codigo, Sum(Kilos) As TotalKilos
From (
Select Cod1 Codigo, Sum(kg1 + kg2 + kg3) As Kilos
From Tabla
Group By Cod1
Union ALL
Select Cod2 Codigo, Sum(kg1 + kg2 + kg3) As Kilos
From Tabla
Group By Cod2
Union ALL
Select Cod3 Codigo, Sum(kg1 + kg2 + kg3) As Kilos
From Tabla
Group By Cod3
) As Acumulados
Group By Acumulados.Codigo